Why My Marriages Kept Failing and the Hidden Patterns I Ignored for Years

 

My name is Mama Esther, I am 40 years old and I have seen many things in this life. I have cooked for men who walked away, cried on pillows until morning, and prayed until my knees became rough. I used to ask God, “Why can’t love stay with me?”

I got married for the first time when I was only twenty-two. I was full of dreams, hoping to build a home and raise children. 

But after three years, my husband changed. He began to shout, to disappear for days, and finally he left. People said, “Maybe you are cursed.” I believed them.

Later, I met another man, kind and gentle. I thought, this one will stay. We stayed together for seven years, and then he too changed. The same story repeated — fights, silence, heartbreak. After that, I said I will never marry again.

I told myself maybe I was born unlucky in love. Maybe it was my destiny. But deep down, I kept wondering — why does my love always end the same way?

Then one day at the market, an old friend from my village said something strange.
She told me, “Mama Esther, your problem might not be men — maybe your star is tired.”
I laughed, but she said, “GET FULL STORY HERE.